Thirty years on....
Our Song......
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXtc-TH0Iv4
10 things I would tell my "newly married" self, 30 years on:
- Your marriage will go from strength to strength, there are adventures to be had!
- Marriage is not 50:50, sometimes it is 90:10 on either side due to outside influences past or present and the time will come when you no longer need to "unload your issues" at ridiculous hours of the evening
- "This too will pass"- 120 hour working weeks when you spend evenings and weekends alone with small children.
- Enjoy the fact that you both have very different personalities and learn from each other!
- Don't talk to him when he is reading in bed....
- Always feed him before you tell him something that will cause irritation, when he arrives home.
- He has totally different "love languages" from you, try and remember that (constant note to self)
- Map reading in cars will cause major stress if you are the navigator....but Sat Nav is on the horizon!
- He will introduce you to growing stuff, dogs and chickens and you will tell him about India....
- He will always love you, just the way you are and will encourage you to become who you were made to be!
Who knows what the future holds, the next 30 years?!
One thing is certain, our marriage has never just been about us.....
"Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes 4:12
God has always been our third strand...without His transforming work in our lives, I wonder where we would be today?
God has always been our third strand...without His transforming work in our lives, I wonder where we would be today?
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